
An Unconventional Way to Lead
By Mary V. Gelinas

What if leadership is not only about what you do or say, but about the fields you help create?
What if becoming a more effective leader isn’t simply a matter of knowing more, doing more, or working harder? What if leadership also depends on your ability to perceive and tend the invisible relational spaces in which people think, feel, collaborate, and create?
This is the essence of leading through field awareness.
Two Sides of the Same Coin
Most of us are familiar with the conventional responsibilities of leadership: articulating a compelling vision, developing strategies, setting goals, improving processes, making decisions, holding people accountable, and achieving results.
These are essential. They provide the scaffolding that allows an organization to function and survive. But scaffolding is not the building itself. Nor is it the space in which people live, work, and relate to one another.
What happens in that space? What invisible forces shape whether people flourish, become defensive, innovate, withdraw, trust, or disengage?
What becomes possible when leaders learn to work with those unseen dynamics as intentionally as they work with budgets, strategies, and organizational charts?
The words themselves offer a clue.
Conventional comes from the Late Latin conventionalis—that which follows agreement, custom, or tradition.
Unconventional invites us to step beyond inherited assumptions about what leadership is and how it is practiced. It asks us to question familiar habits and expand our ways of seeing.
Perhaps the future of leadership is not choosing one over the other. Perhaps it requires both.
Leading Through Field Awareness
Leading unconventionally does not mean abandoning sound management practices. It means expanding leadership to include awareness of the fields in which those practices unfold.
As I described in an earlier post, leading through field awareness means perceiving and tending the invisible relational spaces in which leadership happens.
This does not require leaders to know more technical details than everyone else.
I remember the Chief Operating Officer of a biotechnology company shaking his head after speaking with one of the firm’s scientists. “He expected me to understand every detail about large molecules,” he said. “That’s not my job. It’s his. My job is to keep the whole ship moving in one direction.”
His comment captured an important truth.
Leading a complex organization is not about becoming the smartest person in every room. It is about creating the conditions in which everyone’s intelligence can emerge.
That requires both conventional leadership skills and the less familiar capacity to recognize, discern, and cultivate life-giving fields.
Recognize
Recognition has several dimensions.
First, we recognize because we have encountered fields before.
You know the quiet majesty that settles over you when you enter an ancient redwood forest. You can feel the atmosphere change before a storm arrives. You recognize the tension when you walk into a room where conflict has been simmering for hours. And you know the unmistakable feeling when a group is deeply connected, creative, and fully alive.
Second, recognition means acknowledging that these fields are real. You can sense when a team is working in harmony—and when something unseen is quietly pulling people apart.
Finally, recognition includes acknowledging your own participation. You are not simply observing the field. You are helping create it. Because of your position, your presence often influences the field more than you realize.
Discern
Recognizing a field is one thing. Discerning what it needs is another. This is difficult because you are always inside the field you are trying to understand.
The better you know your own interior landscape—your thoughts, emotions, assumptions, bodily sensations, and deeper intentions—the more clearly you can perceive the larger field around you.
Field awareness begins with self-awareness. We discern through our bodies, hearts, and minds. Our bodies often detect what our intellect has not yet named. Our hearts perceive qualities of connection, fear, hope, or trust. Our minds help us make meaning of what we are sensing.
When these ways of knowing work together, leaders gain greater freedom to choose how they respond. Instead of reacting automatically, they can respond from a deeper, wiser, and more grounded presence.
As Walt Whitman observed,
“We convince by our presence.”
Presence itself becomes a leadership practice.
Take Responsibility
Fields are not simply the backdrop for leadership. They are the medium through which leadership occurs. Because of this, leaders have a profound responsibility to interrupt unhealthy fields and intentionally cultivate life-giving ones.
Doing so often requires stepping beyond accepted leadership norms. It requires courage.
Sometimes the risk is relatively small. A leader might simply describe what they are noticing.
“As I share my hopes for this organization, I notice many of you are looking down rather than making eye contact. I’m wondering what’s happening for us right now.”
Then they wait. Without rushing to fill the silence.
Sometimes the risk is much greater.
I once worked with a CEO who, during a retreat with his senior leadership team, became emotional while speaking about his hopes for the organization and how deeply he cared about both its mission and its people. His tears changed the field.
Rather than diminishing his credibility, his vulnerability created permission for others to speak honestly about what mattered most to them. The conversation shifted from protecting positions to sharing purpose.
Trust deepened. The field became more alive.
The Invitation
Conventional leadership will always matter. Organizations need vision, strategy, structure, accountability, and execution.
But they also need leaders who can perceive and shape the invisible fields that determine whether those structures come alive.
Leadership is both architecture and atmosphere. Both scaffolding and space. Both visible action and invisible influence.
Perhaps the most important leadership question is not simply:
What should I do or say next?
Perhaps it is:
What kind of field am I helping create—and what is that field inviting from me now?
That may be the deepest and most unconventional leadership practice of all.
The future may not belong to leaders who simply manage organizations. It may belong to those who can perceive, cultivate, and steward the invisible fields from which organizations emerge.








































